
Honouring International Women’s Day … Tuesday 10 March 2-3.30 pm, The Beach in Nairn
The Essence – in a few words – relating to give to gain, wellbeing & nature, locations, career & workplace, education & learning
5 of us, wander on windswept beach, billy-can fire and tea in the shelter of the dunes, conversation, listening, being together and the joy of a sense of belonging, synchronicity, inter-connectedness, magic of nature’s natural rhythms which reminds us of what-is.
A complicated, inter-connected, dynamic, multi-dimensional picture, with ebb-and-flow moving from self-interest to all-of-us-interest, in constant movement – and effecting our relationships with self, other, our communities, our politics, our world and creating our policies, structures and thence world-views and actions.
Non-gender female-male characteristics, traits, principles, energies: how we toggle between, and have both within us (and in everything else). Female characteristics include being, stillness, rest, introspection, passive, receptive, rounded …. And male include active, creative, sharp, positive, doing … Both are within us all, and acknowledging this toggling can help us create spaces and energies of hope, patience, transcendence – both-and rather than either-or. This moves us towards celebration and honouring of balance of both, and focus on imbalance to bring balance – for example, honouring women and their stories white-washed out of historical narrative. Virginia Woolf said “I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often a woman”.
“co-creating the fix in twenty-twenty-six” by supporting, being with each other, drawing each other up v pulling each other down, creating healthy boundaries relating to ebb-flow of yin-yang and core values, morals and principles gained through awareness and increased conscious thought and action, with kindness and inclusion-to-transcend habitual practice.
That is, moving from the brain-mind to the heart-mind assists us to create spaces and places for self and all on this planet, including care around the use of language and the energy and power loaded within (see new B-level for more practical courses just announced).
Fear of Missing Out – Joy of Missing Out – pointing to adopting the pace and rhythm of nature, her secret being patience, connecting with the deep, unseen and forever present if only we can tune in, listen, reflect, remember… which requires tuning out of societal information hotspots and attractors that compete for our attention, taking our focus to Doing rather than Being. This strengthens our sense of heart-felt response and gives us hope, which ripples out into our being and into the world, wherever we find ourselves.


Living close to nature has in her experience helped her in every way, and keeps her in alignment with her true Self, after years of seeking and exploring. It is from ‘being' first, that the ‘doing' comes, and is now the core element of her living and contribution to others. She coaches individuals from all sectors to assist in finding core sense of Self (Unique Being Point), from which everything else flows - tuning into feelings of ‘lightness and heaviness’ as indicators of projections and thought patterns (and systems, processes and culture) that pull us down, to finding our unique direction or calling to guide us through the complexities and challenges of this life, which pulls us up, and energises us and everything consequently flows.


